So i think the title explains it all, i (28F) meet this guy (34M) 2 weeks ago, and he was trying to instantly flirt with me but i told him to stop and that i dont do that with people i just met, i have a bit of a dirty mind, so i joke flirty sometimes, and he knows this, hes seen me do it with another friend of mine, who im more comfortable with and known for a lot longer. He knows i joke, hell ive even been told ive flirted by accident before. This last conversation was the last to final straw about it, cause hes also asked me to use his sneakers while i was drunk to make them dirty for him, which that convo i didnt even respond to. Either way, AITAH for telling him off?
Converstation:
Me: sorry had to hide that.
Him: LOL
Me: Stop, please, i had opened that on my laptop and my daughter was right there
Him: Sorry LMAO, I wasnt sending anymore.
Me: No its not LMAO ive tried being nice, ive told you beforeThat i dont do that till im comfotable with you and you just been pushing it, and it was really bad when i was drunk with whyat you were doing So youre on your last straw dude.
Him: I’m not openly talking about constantly tho it\* I haven’t been pushing it? I barely talk about stuff like that with ya
Me: maybe in your mind.
Him: Its only been since we first talked that it was heavily implied and I’ve barely brought it up since. I send this stuff because we are both dirty minded, I’m not doing it like every 10 seconds or something.
Me: All because im dirty minded doesnt mean i wanna see it. I dont even share porn or hentai with my boyfriend. (Quick note: Partially open realationship only ERP online)
Him: Well thats different between you and your boyfriend
Me: so why would i wanna do it with someone ive only known for 2 weeks
Him: Idk? I’m not trying to be rude here So I apologize
me: Niether am i, but dude, seriously. i dont wanna open my latop to see that while my depression is acting up and my daughter is right there, im lucky shes 3 and will forget about it, but if she was older i would have blocked you instantly cause i dont want her to see that stuff, so seriously, last straw
Him: Tbh, I am not going to expect you would have your daughter around if I send that. I can’t predict whats on your side obv
Me: Thats minus the point dude i would have done it as a lesson for her.
Him: Just saying. Its not really a factor to bring up
ME: maybe if you had a kid you would understand a bit more
Him: I understand your pov Wasn’t here to argue tbh, lets just drop the conversation
Me: I gotta go. Bye.
Him: Better to just not chat for the rest of the night Have a good one.
I dont understand why your continuing to communicate with him. Hes disrespectful AF. Block and move on.
idk, he seems weird and creepy, but you also sound questionable yourself. doesn’t absolve him of being a weirdo, but you seem shady.