So basically my friend is going to celebrate his birthday this Saturday but I feel like its a very lazy and low effort attempt to get it going in hopes of getting gifts. He wants us to join at 8pm to just sit around in his living room and "chill".
He is known for not cooking or preparing anything in that regard and the time its scheduled in feels very odd for a Saturday to start at 8 pm not only in my eyes but also a few of my friends I asked when it comes to it.
Its the reason I am deciding not to go as I dont feel like just sitting around in a living room on a valuable weekend when the host isnt going to put in effort to begin with.
Dont get me wrong I dont mind going out on weekends if we actually did something worthwhile like going out as a group of friends to a place to eat or decide to cook together etc i would be more than willing to stick around and join.