I was talking to a girl for a while, she would talk to me about her life, both good and bad. We became good friends fast, we went on call often talking for hour often over games. One night we finally told eachother we both like eachother, I was thrilled and we continued our talk for a while until we both went to bed. When I woke up I was terrified, idk why but I was suddenly terrified of being in a relationship. I instantly messaged her saying I wasn’t ready, she responded quickly but I let the message sit for about an hour. When I opened it she kinda understood but just wanted to try to keep the friendship.(if you didn’t think I’m the a hole you Probaly will now) I said no I was too embarrassed and proceeded to block her on all social media. I’m pretty sure I know the awnser but I’d like to hear what other people think.
YTA for blocking her on everything
Do you know her for real or is this an internet friend?
YTA, also you should look into attachment styles unless you want this to be a repeating pattern
if you’re 15, you’re gonna make dumb mistakes like this, learn from it
I’m trying
YTA. Unblock and apologize while explaining how much of a dumbass you are. Immediately.
This was a while ago, she doesn’t use the same socials and I’m not in contact with any of her friends anymore, if I’m able to come back into contact with her the goal is to apologize.
YTA. not for not pursuing the relationship but or blocking her on everything. You could have said no and politely declined friendship.
Yeah, if I could redo things this is what I would’ve done.
NAH. We all do weird things based on our histories and our hang-ups. You can undo this by apologizing, or you can move on to the next relationship. But if you are thinking you’re an AH for this, you might want to consider some counseling to help you understand why you behave this way, and what you can do to help yourself in the future.
This was a while ago, I haven’t been in any relationships since so I’m not sure what I’m supposed to be shooting for, I have thought about some sort of counseling before because I am terrible with relationships in general.
You actually told her you were too embarrassed? If so, then you’re not a huge ass, but if you just FELT embarrassed, said no and blocked her, then YTA