I have gotten really close with my section/class over the past few months and awhile back I did a hangout at my house and my friends were totally cool with it until one of our neighbours/one of the people who go to our school said we were practicing for our performance(Context: Our school doesn’t allow students to practice for school performances outside of school if it’s a group). Since most of the girls in my friend group are in the other section aside from this one friend, all of us got into a huge fight about it until we finally proved that we didn’t practice at my house. When we all started talking about it more one of my friends brought up how I said I would only bring our friend group to my house even though I barely have a memory of me saying that but maybe I did so I apologised for it but I wonder if i shouldn’t be held back by a promise that I’m not sure I even made and even if it was I said it months ago when I didn’t expect to make new friends. Now my classmates want to hang out again but we don’t have a place to go to and they’re suggesting to hang out at my house again. I want to talk about them coming over but I’m really not sure. So am I the asshole for what I did? Because I genuinely don’t know if I was in the wrong for that and if I’m not, should I ask them if my section could go over to my house?
nta. that’s a real weird promise to make, and a weirder promise to get upset about.
you’re allowed to make more friends.
NTA. Your friend doesn’t get to corner you into only inviting them and that friend group to your house. You get to invite who you want to your home.
First of all NTA but I’m mainly saying that because you sound too young to even be an asshole in any way.
Honestly, don’t worry about it give it the ol’ my mom said no after what happened last time and move on.
I’m more worried about someone your age being on Reddit. Be careful and don’t respond to private messages, period. Don’t give out personal info. In fact, don’t even respond to me with too much info as your first test.
I deleted reddit cause I never used it, and I only posted cause I’ve been really conflicted about this situation so don’t worry
Are you by chance from South East Asia? Just curious haha