Fake names for anonymity. I’m currently a bit pissed at my friends for their actions tonight and don’t know if I’m being an asshole about it or if what they did is messed up.
To start off my friends John and Michael come over to my apartments pretty frequently to work out at my gym and play pool tonight was no different aside from we were all going to watch the ufc fight in my apartment. We worked out like normal the went upstairs to watch the fights where they got increasingly more belligerent and loud which bothers me as I am on the top floor and don’t want to piss off my neighbors below me.
By the end of the fights (around 11pm) they were acting like children being very loud stomping around my apartment and even wrestling in my house after I have expressly told them my house is off limits to that. They ended up wanting to go to the gym again but I was done for the night and didn’t want to go they tried to convince me to go but I was adamant that I was done for the night.
They then tried to convince me to let them in my gym so they could work out without me which I wasn’t okay with because of how loud they were being and I wanted to avoid getting fined and or banned from the gym because of their actions. They ended up deciding to drive down to a local 24hr gym so they could work out while I stayed home. About 5 minutes after they left my house Michael texted our group chat saying John fked up and how they were cooked without giving me too many details. John then asked ke to come get them to which I replied asking why and Michael said John had rear ended someone at a red light. I told them to send me a photo of the damage and where they were at. They sent me a zoomed in picture of John’s trucks bumper which was a scure from a prior accident he had been in. I knew after that picture they were lying and called them out on it. I said it was f’ed up to try and prank me with a fake car crash and they replied it was just a joke and I needed to calm down.
They are both supposed to be coming over tomorrow in the morning to work out again and I don’t know if I should confront the or not.
NTA
John and Michael are annoying.
Also- Have you considered something called a “paragraph”?
Are they on f*cking steroids or something? These guys are wild, and not in a good way.
Agreed, NTA…
What’s your issue with their writing? They do tend to do paragraph breaks at two sentences instead of three or four, but if you’re shifting subjects, it doesn’t make much sense just to try and pad a paragraph out with unnecessary sentences.
There is the one lengthy paragraph (eight sentences by my count, and it could be broken up), but it’s really not that long, either. I’m struggling to see what your issue is with their writing.
I saw it over an hour before you did. I assume there was some editing in the interim. When I saw the post originally, there were no paragraphs at all. It also looks like there was some grammar and spelling editing. It’s much more readable now.
Ed to add- If you scroll down to the automod, you can see the changes.
NTA, those guys are assholes.
I don’t think you are an asshole, what you said to them was all valid, definitely confront them. Xoxo 😃👍
NTA. They need to grow up. Pranking someone you love with a car crash is cruel. I would be taking a break from hanging out with them.
NTA get new friends
NTA. End the friendship and tell them they are no longer welcome at your place or in your life. If they want to work out they can do it on their own and their own dime.
You’re friends are twats.
Nooo not at all, what they did was really bad teats and something you should never joke about. I would seriously reconsider them as friends if they think it’s funny to do something like that
Sounds like you’ve got shitty friends