Back story about a year or 2 ago his cousin stole from me and lied about it. It wasn’t anything major but i still felt disrespected ‘ my fiancé would not say anything to her until i made a big deal as he found it useless. A few days after this incident she added him to his close friends on instagram which i thought was weird because she was posting twerk videos. Her excuse was she didn’t mean to (which i feel like is a lie).Me and his cousin ended up arguing about everything i mentioned. She proceeds to insinuate in the argument that she have seen our sex videos. I’m not sure how && my fiancé says he doesn’t know either. I assume she invaded OUR privacy using his phone and i asked him to cut all contact with her. Fast forward to today my fiance has 2 phones I keep one he has the other. i noticed a number text him asking if he has left. When i tried to click the message it was deleted, comes to find out it was his cousin. Which i feel is weird and disrespectful because how did she get your number and why do you want to talk to her? He says it’s still his cousin and they have to be around each other etc. i feel as though something more is going on behind the scenes because why did she feel comfortable adding him to her close friends and looking at his private parts && why won’t he cut all communication with someone like this family or not. AITA for wanting to leave and feeling betrayed.
Honestly whatever the fuck is going on with that situation it is fucked up. Trust your gut. Mine is telling me that this is very very off