Okay so my long distance boyfriend and I (f) have been dating since February 12th, (it’s now the 3rd of march) we broke up at 12:53 am on march 1st because as we dated he had a friend we’re just gonna call Mary and one night he asks me if he can sleep otp with her because her boyfriend had cheated on her, ofc I was mad (who wouldn’t be jealous?) but I let him anyway, then as time went on he kept mentioning her more like when we called he’d say “let me text Mary rq” or hold up I need to call Mary” or we’ll be texting and he’ll casually mention “oh I’m otp with Mary rn I can’t call sorry” if I ask to call, and just to let you know Mary stayed with her cheating boyfriend and likes mine so ofc I don’t like her but I’m still being civil, I even ask him politely not to talk to her as often as it made me uncomfortable, time skip to the night we broke up, we had been texting and I had a really bad day and I asked him if we could sleep on the phone and he said yes, then I had to go to the laundromat and when I come back he’s sitting there telling me “depending on what Mary’s boyfriend does I might have to sleep otp with her tonight” and of course I get mad so I ask him if she doesn’t have any other friends and he full on said “Idk that’s not a me question and it’s also called I’m being a good friend I haven’t tried anything and I won’t try anything and she hasn’t tried anything and she won’t I promise u nothing will happen” so me, being mad, jealous and impulsive I go ask her chat and I ask “does it always have to be him” to which she responds wdym so I go ahead and ask “does you not have any other fucking friends? Why do you always have to talk to him” to which I get my boyfriend spamming me to stop yelling at her (they were on call as this happened) and then him and I had a long conversation time skip he asked if I still wanted to sleep on the phone with him but Mary would be there for a while too, and I was angry and I don’t want anything to do with that girl and I say no, and then the breakup process starts and he breaks up with me, anywayyy I’m tryna keep it civil but I also asked him if he liked Mary to which he said “somewhat but that’s not why I broke up with you I don’t really wanna get into it rn” so am I the a-hole for telling his friends that? Now even they are on my side and he’s being an even bigger brat bc he doesn’t understand why their avoiding him, ohhh and to top it all off he’s already texting other girls in a flirty way and even his best friend said that’s messed up.
YTA for expecting us to read that grammatical atrocity
You’re definitely under 18 and I cannot read that novel but hope it gets sorted… 😬
I have stuff in my fridge older than this relationship. Your break up seems justified. Block him and move on, don’t waste any more time thinking about it.