To start, I never been near my father my entire life. He never took his responsibility as a father but I tried to forgive him. 6month ago I got accepted at university but with no where to live nearby the school. I was living with my mother at 1h30min drive. I had the idea to ask my father who was living with my grandmother at 15min of my university . My grandmother was supposed to go to an other appartement and my father promised me to pay the rent when that happened. 2 week before my grandmother quit the apartment my father told that I need to get someone with me to pay the rent and he wasn’t coming. Knowing damn well I was in school with just a part job. He told me that everything finish by working out. He had no job and he was living in his camping car. At first he told me that he had a job and the money to pay. I trusted him. Now I had the choice to take the responsibility to pay the rent and keep the apartment otherwise we were losing it. But the rent was so cheap it’s was a big opportunity for me since everything is twice the price now. Since my grandmother was living there for 35years. So I stopped school to start working and pay the rent and free from my parents to start my adult life or I was going back to my mother but it was to far from my school and no money to travel. So now I pay all the rent and I’m mad at my father for trusting him so I ask him to come and get all his thing since it’s my house now. AITA?
NTA. He has moved on. His things ought to go with him.
According to Judge Judy if his stuff is there, he’s there. You may want to rethink living with him, though. He might squat and be hard to evict
Drop out of school to pay rent or go back to your mom’s house and commute is what your option. I’d be pissed if you were my child or friend and dropped out of school just so you could say “I live alone”
he wasn’t reliable for your entire existence. things like that don’t change.