I asked my coworker to pass my bottle of coke. I was up on a ledge and I had left it down on the ground floor. I asked her to pass it to me and she literally threw it to me. It was half full, and it had a lid on it and everything, but it got all shaken up and was instantly flat. I was already pretty annoyed with her for being… kinda useless, all the time. I snapped at her "Use your brain!"
YTA – yes, she made a mistake, but it was in the context of trying to help you. Probably best to apologise to her.
YTA. This didn’t strike me as (i) something you needed to get someone else to do and (ii) something to get so angry about you needed to hurl an insult.
What a bizarre thing to get so angry about. Did you need to get angry? Did you need to write this post about something so silly? No.
Yta apologise to your colleague. Its half a coke ffs 🙄
kinda useless, all the time.
If this was a one off it would have been unnecessary to shout, but it sounds like it might have been a final straw for you. At the end of the day coke being flat is no biggy but presumably you could have been hurt or soaked. I think asking work colleagues if you were out of line would make more sense. Is she a problem in the workplace, or was it fair to lose it with her
YTA
YTA. If you thought she was useless, why did you ask her to do something for you? Why didn’t you “use your brain” and go down for the bottle, ask someone you held in actual esteem or wait until you’d finished your work to be done on the ledge? You not qualifying the other things she did for you to call her reliably useless doesn’t help.
Yeah bro YTA snapping at people isn’t cool. Get your emotions under control.
NTA
YTA – You’re an adult, act like it.
Use yours. It’s “lose”
What were you expecting?