My “girlfriend” sure loves avoiding me to talk to other people at night, masking it as “I’m a social person” when in reality I’m sure she loves everyone but me, she sleeps on the phone with other men and girls, and actually begged this person to come back, saying she called them 20 times, I never got that treatment, not that I would wish that upon her, but I feel like sleeping on the phone with someone other than ur partner is cheating, am I the asshole for thinking this? I love her, but I think I need some self respect
I think you’re in the wrong sub…
>I think I need some self respect
Bruh. You already know what’s up.
I’m sorry you are def NTA if your partner would rather fall asleep talking to someone other than you, if she’s not cheating she may as well be.
I wouldn’t consider it cheating if it happened occasionally, I’ve definitely fallen asleep accidentally while on the phone with a friend or my sister. A lot of times it has happened while talking to my husband on the phone.
But if it’s happening constantly?? You’re NTA for questioning her motives but you are TA to yourself for not having self respect.