Me (28F) and my ex fiencé (M38) known eachother for 2years on and off , then we got engaged for2 years after i finally decided i was done when i ran into his tinder profile ( i got an account to look for him there when he started acting sus and gaslighting me )
Two weeks later i started swiping on tinder when i met my current bf (M33) on tinder and we started hanging out ever since , somehow my ex found out about it and he started texting me threats about how i m the one was cheating and i knew my bf before we broke up
So AITA for moving on a cheater fast ?
NTA, Report the threats.
Yeah, definitely report that stuff to the cops, that’s unhinged behavior.
You are NTA, but make sure that you enter the new relationship slowly and cautiously while you are still healing to make sure you avoid getting in to the same circumstance again.
NTA
I mean. It only matters if you still care about your ex. Move on if you’re gonna move on.
NTA
He cheated. I’d have been over him in about 5 minutes.
He wants you to mourn losing him. Just laugh in his face, block him, and don’t worry about how he’s spinning it to try to turn himself into the victim.
And don’t rush into anything serious. Last thing you need is more bullshit.
Definitely NTA. He cheated and you ended the relationship. You moved on and found someone else. He never had the right to send those threats because he’s jealous. You deserve someone who respects you and is loyal.
NTA, but you really should take some time to get over a past relationship before you move on to a new one.
Report the threats, block him and move on. He’s wrong, but it doesn’t matter what he think of you regardless.
NTA