Recently had a fight over boundaries and its to do with suggestive content online and recently was scrolling on insta and it was a shit post about the jenny mod on minecraft with a bunch of guys messing around with mods and reacting in an entertaining way, she got all heated about it and she says things like "you dont respect me" "you take me for granted" I dont i have respected boundaries and kept away from THOSE sites but even just a shitpost is too far?
Why is she watching you scroll IG? Maybe you can keep that kind of content for when you are on your own.
ESH but more you than her. There’s a reason people say “What you don’t know can’t hurt you”.
NTA. She sounds immature. (She’ll get even more mad if you tell her that though.)
Info: more of advice actually. Why don’t you try understanding her first? Ask her why she thinks you take her for granted and how you can be better with an open mind. Later, you can think about the whole thing from a bird’s eye view. A small thing can mean something deeper and more significant to her
Your gf is your partner. You’re supposed to improve each other’s life and sometimes that means changing things about yourself that improve you/respecting other people even if you already were respectful to your standards. A relationship is an investment of time and effort. Ask questions gently and find out what she truly wants to talk about/think about