There’s this group of friends im in, I’m not friends with all of them, and there’s this guy… Let’s call him Henry, Henry don’t like me, he says that I bother him on purpose, that on every game he plays with me and the rest of the group I go after him to bother him, but I don’t notice myself doing it and treat everyone just as I treat my friends trying to keep a good relationship with everyone, and today he came to me while I was on a Minecraft server and said that I bothered him for the reasons I already listed, I said that I didn’t notice doing denying everything, he laughed and affirmed again, I just said that if he wanted he could just block me and stop interacting or leave the server since no one was forcing us, he denied the offer and said he had hope for me to get better and change, I don’t interact with him out of when we’re playing with my friends or have intimacy, given that I’m not willing to change for someone who I don’t talk just to make him comfortable, clearly he doesn’t have any interest in befriending me so why should I bother with such thing? Now I’m planning on just leaving the group since I have 3 friends in there
Im not really comfortable in the group since some months ago when I came out for being nonbinary with the nane I was more comfortable being called some of them including Henry made fun of me
sorry for being redundant it’s my first AITA post here but thanks for the attention and for reading stay safe!
Definitely NTA. If people won’t accept you for who you are, they can take a hike.
NTA, it sounds like you need a new friend group.