Here’s a little context. Me and my gf are making cards for eachother that we will reveal on Thanksgiving. Mid call my gf says “thank you thank you” to refer to the TikTok meme. I jokingly laugh and ask her to do the dance because it would be funny. She says “on Thanksgiving”.
I reply and say “I’m going to hold you to it” and she laughs it off.
Then later, the topic was jokingly brought back up and I said that I won’t kiss her unless she does the bounce first. She gets offended and will barely talk to me. Thanksgiving is coming up and I just want to see her do the thank you bounce. AITA for saying this to her?
YTA. What in the teen cringe even is this?
YTA she’s your girlfriend not your dog. She’s not there to do tricks for you. Grow up.
YTA
She’s your girlfriend, not a dog. Why are you asking her to do tricks for your entertainment?
YTA
Yeesh.
YTA.
yikes.
YTA but I need this translated and I pray you guys are in high school
YTA
Joking once, whatever, no big deal. Threatening to withhold affection if she doesn’t perform for you— ew, gross. Enough of that type of behavior is how you lose a girlfriend.
I don’t know what this is, but I’m guessing she’s tried to dodge out of it and now it’s awkward? Maybe she is embarrassed to do it, also… I’m not sure your gender, but a guy withholding affection from a female is so very off-putting and offensive. It’s not fair, but so many guys try to force us that actually willingly giving it away is such a sacred thing to give to a guy, and when he’s indifferent or worse, tries to use it as like, a bargaining chip Issa whole wtf vibe. Sorry.
The what? Get out here with that TikTok bullshit man
You’re something. I think it goes beyond TA.
YTA this is demeaning to you girlfriend
YTA. I don’t even know what you are talking about with the “bounce”, but coercing someone to perform ANY stupid TikTok trend is just gross and immature. If she makes the card and says thank you, that is her showing gratitude
I guess you want a weird trick displayed to you, more than you actually want a girlfriend?
YTA, I’d be offended to.