So. I (23F) found out today my dad (50sM) has been using my shampoo (clearly marked, labeled as such) as his body wash because "his body wash was moved from its usual corner" (not my fault) "he is blind in one eye" (he’s not) and "he is colorblind" (he is, but the bottles are distinctively different and I know for a fact he can see the color red, which HIS body wash is whereas mine is purple). He refuses to apologize for all the stated reasons above. My mom says he is simply excusing bad behavior. My brothers really don’t give a shit, and my friends are all on my side. I just want an apology, but Instead he keeps insisting his disability prevents him from seeing in the shower and noticing that he was using my hair thickening shampoo as body wash! AITA?
EDIT — my dad specifically encouraged me to post here. don’t call me a loser for posting we both want to know who is in the wrong <\\3
EDIT EDIT— removed the reeling part because I realized the tone was hard to pick up on over the internet. I was being facetious
EDIT EDIT EDIT— Ok I am hearing all of you. I’m going to start paying 10000x the amount of rent I currently am and maybe start giving him foot massages. however I still want that apology so when he’s back from the funeral he’s currently at rn im gonna rig the showers water supply with bbq sauce so he feels like he’s showering in blood the next time he goes to bathe. thank you all!
Info: why it is such a big deal?
Because this is AITA and theres no rule about how big a problem has to be.
Like she asked am the asshole for wanting an apology not am the asshole for having an entertaining problem.
Get a caddy and keep your stuff in your room.
Hi! If this is the kind of thing that leaves you REELING, you’re in for a rough ride.