Basically my friend is broke, like 0 money, but just got this new job (hell yeah moving up) alright, problem is he needs transportation and is broke so no car, but buses exist, so hit me up asking for $100 loan to pay for bus fare and in exchange he‘d pay me back $200 when he gets paid. Now I know what you might be thinking,it‘s only $100 and if you guys are friends then you shouldn’t ahve a problem with helping because friends help each other, I think the same however, this is someone that has hundreds worth of loans from me and hasn’t paid me back, now so far the reason fir this has been no job, so I let it slide. But honeslty I‘m pissed having somehow get back to back loans from me and make no effort to even a little back. So that‘s what I said, no I won‘t loan you any money because I‘ve given you multiple and you never pay it back.
So he responds it‘s not that I won‘t I can‘t, and you‘re being a bitch over just a few hundred in loans, and I didn‘t have opportunities like you, $100 isn‘t even that much, youmre rich
So now I don‘t know what to think because yes it’s true he hasn’t been able to pay me back because no job, but secondly I have very little faith/trust because it’s multiple back to back loans and no attempt to payback like with through trying side-huetles/gig work, obviously not everyone can do those, or have thst available, but it’s the laxk of effirt to even attmpt that
So then am I the AITA for not giving the loan?