AITA for wanting to move the household and make a good compromise for my twins?

Throwaway account. I (51M) and my wife (49F) have twins (18M and 18F). I also have an older son (21M). For privacy let’s call my twin son “Louis” and my twin daughter “Laura”. Let’s call my older son “Jason” and my wife “Kayla”. We are super proud of Louis and Laura for getting accepted into their choice schools! But I am in a weird dilemma. Laura has been accepted into Penn State for CS and I am pretty excited because Jason is also studying mechanical engineering there.

Louis has been accepted to Carnegie Mellon’s business program. I admire his accomplishments and his acceptance into a wonderful college. But CMU is expensive and too far away from our house. We’re about half an hour away from Penn State currently but CMU is about two hours away from home so we’d have to move a little closer. I tried to convince him to be a little closer but he insists on CMU and he has a friend he wants to be with. As we don’t have any close-by relatives that Louis can live with, I’m currently searching for a house that is right in between both universities and conveniently.

My wife also has severe separation anxiety so if she and I were to live apart for a little bit for her and Louis to find a temporary place closer to CMU, it would be a problem. Kayla and I are planning to move a few weeks after the twins graduate and we definitely need some time to prepare because moving is a very lengthy process. However, I’m having a bit of trouble trying to find a place in between the two universities as they are nearly three hours apart from each other.

When Jason and Laura found out we were moving they were pissed off. They are pretty annoyed that their parents want them to move over the summer but I’ve been trying to explain to them that this is for good reason. I understand that a lot of their childhood memories came from that house and that we are moving further away from some of their friends but for practicality, and because I cannot take off work to drive Louis two hours back and forth, we need to find a good middle ground.

Recently coworkers were chatting about it once and they are saying Louis should live in a dorm but I politely told them that that is none of their business. My wife and I won’t be able to cope with that pretty well. So I am asking you all for your thoughts. I don’t want to damage our family but at the same time the two of them splitting to universities hours apart from each other is going to make the commute miserable for everyone.

AITA for wanting to move the household and create a good compromise?

Edit: For context, Jason and Laura are commuting from home because we are not too far from the university and they agreed to save some money. They are a little annoyed that their commute would be a little longer if we were to move further away, but at the same time Louis cannot be commuting two hours a day, twice.

Edit 2: Apparently I didn’t realize that Louis’s school requires on campus housing for a year. I think I might get in contact with my sister to see if she can temporarily relocate to Pittsburgh.

Edit 3: Louis seems to be a little bit distant with me recently and I think he is starting to hate me for what I’m planning. He has had a major attitude problem over the past few months and it seems that he has not been behaving how he usually does. I think his friend who wants to room with him is a problem. Though to be fair I was a bit strict with him when he was a teenager. I’m trying to convince him that he should prioritize his family’s wellbeing so that he doesn’t fall for bad vices, or bad peers.