Okay, so about a week ago I had an inkling or an ongoing one for about a month to look at my husbands phone. Which I hate doing, but it was really bothering me. Only for me to find that he was hitting on some older chick who was married and had kids, calling her princess and beautiful. Mind you we are about to have 2 kids and I’m 8 months into the second pregnancy. I found out he did this a month ago, when I first started feeling off but rubbed it off cause we were doing so well. But the more I looked at the messages he would tell her i’m his ex for about a year, and then continued to call her sexy. And eventually he started looking desperate, asking her off she wanted to see nudes basically. Telling her he missed her. She was just venting about her love life, showing no interest. It basically looked like he was harassing her. He would call her sexy, she eventually blocked him. Now what stood out and how I knew she was a past thing is he would bring up this deaf older lady. And in her IG profile she put she was deaf. So I’m just in a pickle about how to confront him. He’s in the military and gone all the time. I’ve been distant and he’s been oddly clingy and more affectionate it’s making me uncomfortable. I want to make it work cause I love him, we have kids, and are we work well together. I’m just in shock as to why he did it. I’m a SAHM. I cook, clean, I give him massages anytime he’s home while watching our child by myself. I’m the only one who changes her(she’s 1 and 4 months) and being pregnant. It’s tiresome. What do I do? I’m sorry it’s a lot, but thank you for any advice or help. I don’t have any friends as he was my only person I have around.