As a man AITA for getting offended that someone got me an adult toy that is the equivalent to a male strap-on. It is basically half of a dildo that a man puts on top of his boy making it double in girth while also vibrating. I understand keeping things fresh but it seemed to me there is something deeper being insinuated. So AITA!?
YTA and insecure; its a toy and rarely anything deeper than that. Chances are she just saw a toy and thought this looks fun. Talk to your wife if it really bothers you that much
Have you tried it out? You might enjoy it.
If she thought you are not enough she would just get someone else. YTA
INFO: did you talk to her about it bothering you before posting this?
Sounds like fun.. wheres the harm? Do you also get jealous of her other toys that you cant participate with..?
If they always want to use it, maybe its something to bring up. But toys are just for fun to spice things up. Get naked and have some fun 💪
I don’t think it’s a deeper problem….maybe some wider issues
YTA for taking it personally without discussing it first. She may have just thought it would be fun and in no way is making a judgement about the size of your penis, which in all likelihood is the same size that it was before she MARRIED you.
Talk to your wife about it bro, you’re not bad for feeling bad but it’s also like any toy your not inadequate to whatever toy she has it’s just extra fun for you both but obviously man you ain’t gotta use anything you’re uncomfortable with just be honest with her that you don’t want to use it dude but she also probably just thought you’d both enjoy it that doesn’t mean yours isn’t good like when you add salt to food sometimes the original meal is real good salt just brings out extra flavor.
YTA. Many women physically cannot come from PIV. Until you can get a naturally vibrating penis, maybe just take it as an opportunity to have more fun together in the bedroom.
NAH. This is new territory for you, discuss with the other half before deciding to be offended. _You_ are her chosen one…now find out what she has in mind!
You married this whole ass woman and you can’t even speak to her first 🤣 bro get your shit together YTA
YTA for being so insecure that you don’t realize that you got a partner who want to engage with you sexually and make things interesting and fresh.
If she had brought up a Bad Dragon dildo, would you think she wants you to have tentacles instead of a dick?
YTA and judging by your other comments, doubly so, you should be thinking “Wow, my wife has bought something that I can use to make her cum for the first time in our relationship”
YTA
Are you the asshole for getting offended? No. Your feelings are valid and if her purchase of this toy made you feel inadequate or emasculated that’s completely understandable. Unfortunately you became the asshole when you lashed out and told her she should buy something to make herself tighter instead rather than having a civil conversation where you make yourself vulnerable by sharing your feelings.