Okay so like my family and I live in quite a complicated household situation- that causes me too much emotional distress to talk about- so to keep things simple, I am a 17 year old (F) and I don’t have a bedroom, and I essentially share a room with my parents. Now I need some space so I usually sleep on the couch, but my mom has been having fights with my dad, so well she usually takes the couch. For a while I used to sleep next to my dad but eventually I found it uncomfortable mainly cause my dad sleeps in weird positions that take up most of the bed, bad breadth, and a lot more. These things he really can’t control, but they still make me uncomfortable, so I like to sleep on the couch. However, due to these fights my mother wants social distance from my dad and takes over my couch. Now the couch is also my me time where I can call up friends or just be, but with my mom there it often gets tough to have that time to myself- I anyway don’t get that space as I don’t have a room, and often my dad prefers working in our hall on the dining table, cause he finds the room, "too small"- so I anyway don’t have the space to just be by myself and just call up friends to have private conversations. So yesterday I yelled at my mother for taking away the only space I ever got and called her broke and useless- even cursed her for bringing me into a world if she can’t respect and provide for basic things. And basically told her to get her shit together and figure out whatever the fuck she’s going through with my dad, instead of making me suffer. AITAH?
You’re 17 and having to share a bed with your parents? Jeez. NTA but do what you can to get out of there ASAP. You should have your own bed even if you are all living in a studio apartment together.