So I’m up late like every teenager and I came across something that I thought my mom would be interested in so I signed up but need a code from her phone, so as usual I’ll just go to her room and take her phone most of the time she’s half awake and asleep, but today I went to her room and boom she and her boyfriend bleh I shut the door immediately and regret why I even open the door, I came to my room and just started doomscrolling cause I just got blinded, my mom just came to my room and start yelling at me for not knocking and going to her room at 1 AM.
Like literally I don’t knock any door and why on earth will I knock the door in the middle of the night when everyone is most likely sleeping.
I don’t know but I think I just fucked up
I didn’t mean to, like I don’t know what to do.
And three days ago se told me he thinks I don’t like him because I’m always frowned and like that’s just me I actually do like him.
I don’t know what to do. Am I the asshole for opening the door.
Btw I’m 17
So yeah I don’t know
(To add up: he doesn’t live here and I didn’t know he was coming over)
YTA for walking into someone’s room in the middle of the night in a non-emergency without even knocking.
you act so entitled. like its your God given right to invade a couple’s room to use your mother’s phone for something. you’re almost an adult. start acting like one. your mom doesn’t need to notify you if her significant other is spending the night, and its crazy that you find it normal to barge into her room without knocking at night anyways.
You went in to her bedroom, at night, without warning, and discovered her doing the kinds of things that adults do in their bedroom at night.
You fucked up. You are old enough to know better. Say you are sorry and that you won’t do it again. Maybe even use your words to tell your mother that you like him.
YTA for blaming others for your mistake.
Yes YTA. Let’s take this to the extreme, how would you feel if your mom opened your bedroom door while you were masturbating?
Her privacy is just as important as yours. Knock first and wait.
You really shouldn’t be taking her phone. Can’t you do all this sign up shit during the day when she’s up?
YTA. You just don’t barge in someone’s room at any time without knocking. You’d love it if your mum barged in on you being ‘occupied’… right? Lesson learned.
YTA . Use your head to THINK.
YTA. Don’t go into someone’s bedroom without permission. Definitely don’t ask to do that at night unless the house is on fire.
YTA. How is this even a question?
YTA
You shouldn’t be signing your mother up for anything, and you’ve no business going into her room late at night.
YTA. Don’t sign someone else up for something without their knowledge, and don’t walk into their room without knowing and waiting if you know there is another person there
You seem really immature, and that’s okay, you’re still young. The fact that you can’t just accept that your mother is a human being with wants and needs, that you claim you’re blinded, that she and her boyfriend “bleh” like you can’t just say that they were being sexual or intimate.
Next time knock. It shows respect for someone else’s privacy.
Or better yet, just make a note and you can ask your mother in the morning if she wants to sign up for whatever it was. Don’t interrupt her sleep, or her sex.
YTA. Sorry kid.
YTA. Your poor mum and her boyfriend. You certainly killed the mood for them. Anyway, learn. Knock on people’s doors, or you’re responsible for what you see.
> Like literally I don’t knock any door
Congratulations on making it this far without it occurring to you that other people deserve privacy too. And now you know exactly why you should. Change your behaviour going forward, you’re not a 5yo with a nightmare anymore and walking into bedrooms that aren’t yours is something adults shouldn’t do to other adults without permission.