My partner and I have been together for a couple of years, and I’ve always tried to be the one who listens, reassures, and helps him through his stress. Lately though, whenever I open up about my own feelings, he goes quiet or changes the subject, and it makes me feel small and dismissed. I’m starting to feel drained from carrying both of our emotional weight, and a part of me is growing resentful even though I love him. I don’t want to leave, but I’m tired of feeling unheard in my own relationship, and I’m wondering if expecting the same support I give makes me the problem. AITAH for feeling this way?