There is a guy in my gym who I’ve been training at the same time with for a long time. He did look at me a few times in the past but nothing extra. However, a few weeks ago we both went to the sauna at the same time, and that was the first time he saw me in a bikini. Ever since then he has been looking at me at the gym every time we see each other but quickly looks away when I catch him.
Something has definitely changed since we saw each other in the sauna. I never talked to him and don’t even know his name but I find him extremely attractive. I know he is not going to come and make the first move because it’s the gym and men are conscious about approaching women yada yada…. so I want to make it really obvious that I like him.
As the title says, how would you feel about a girl coming up to you with a little piece pf paper saying ‘hey I just wanted to give this to you’ and a little wink. Would you think she is desperate or would you find it attractive and appreciate the effort?
Go for it
Ecstatic
“Ecstatic” is an understatement, most guys would replay that moment in their head for the next six months like they just won the lottery.
I wouldn’t even need to be attracted to her. I’d be flattered regardless.
Id be relieved she didn’t ask me for my snap. A phone number? Let’s start planning the weeding.
You’re gonna put her to work in your garden right away?
That would be received 100% positively.
Find me the guy who doesn’t want to be hit on.
My ex did this. I lost the paper. Went back to where we met and she was there. Single biggest mistake of my life. The universe tried to save me but I was a thirsty idiot.
Like a moth to flame. We’ve all been there, man haha
Why not talk to him?
Yeaaaahhh, this is what I have a problem with, with all these comments. Everyone here would feel ecstatic to get a note and I’m like *”a NOTE?”* Wtf? What happened to just talking to him?
I’m sure I would prefer if she just casually approached me and comment on my reps or technique or physique or whatever really. Just to start a conversation.
A note? Jesus. How young are you all here?
No normal guy would have any problem with that. Also, you shouldn’t wear a swimsuit to sauna, it’s terribly unhygienic. You should be naked in a sauna.
Nowadays, it is up to women to make the first move at a gym. We men have been collectively screamed at to not hit on girls at the gym.
So yes, that would be awesome.