I never swipe right on any women I wait for them to swipe right on me. I see it as pointless swipping right on someone and what if she doesn’t like you, probably many men are spamming them with right swipes.
The thing is I wait for women to swipe right on me and then I choose which I like, I get something like 5-10 likes per day as well as messages from women as young as 20 to as old as 39.
The thing is I see many women who are not of my liking, for example some drink alcohol. some smoke, some leave the "wants kids option" blank, some are unattractive because of things like these I swipe left on most of them.
I want to date a woman for marriage, not for hookups or bs, is it ok that I am so choosy with them? I feel young, I look young, I work out, eat healthy, I am honestly not in a hurry to marry, I want to marry the right person.
But then people say I shouldn’t be picky, I am nearing my 40s, I am at an age where I should settle down, I should marry whoever shows interest in me, what should I do in a situation like this?
Man with low standard here, go lower
You miss all shots you don’t take 😉
-Wayne Gretzky
– Michael Scott
If you want to date for marriage, I’d say stop looking on dating apps in general. Find a real girl out in the wild. The ones on the dating apps aren’t worth it.
You want to date a woman to marry but you’re looking at all the wrong places buddy
Don’t discriminate. Participate.
We tell women to lower their standards when they’re on dating apps, so I will give you the same advice. Lower your standards.
Never settle.
There’s nothing wrong with knowing what you want and not settling.
“I want to date for marriage not for hookups” said the guy on tinder….. this must be satire
It sounds like you’re being a little passive in your dating life, which probably won’t get you the result you want. Swipe on the women you like and leave a comment instead of leaving them to swipe on you. It’s not pointless- it’s what online dating is. If she doesn’t swipe back then she doesn’t swipe back 🤷🏻♀️ not everyone is going to like you but the right person will!
Yes, I too have women throwing pussy at me constantly and am valiantly batting it away like the true hero that I am. It’s such a curse and a burden to be in demand like this.
> I never swipe right on any women I wait for them to swipe right on me. I see it as pointless swipping right on someone and what if she doesn’t like you
If the woman has the same approach, you cant possibly match. Swiping on a hundred profiles takes like 3 minutes. Just do it.
> The thing is I see many women who are not of my liking, for example some drink alcohol. some smoke, some leave the “wants kids option” blank, some are unattractive because of things like these I swipe left on most of them.
You dont need to lower your standards for who to date. But you should probably lower them for who to talk to. Like, come on, disqualifying someone for leaving a question blank? Just ask her.