I am really struggling in life and I do not know what to do ?

21 M Height short, dihh small and ED from 2 yrs, face ugly, dressing sense 0 , bank balance 200 dolars, 2 gpa (failed 3 courses already and going to fail 2 more this. Semster i think, mo game for girls cant even talk to them, no visible progress in gym from 5 yrs , no job full time student but wasting time on a stupid business degree from a random ahh college cause parents forcing me to, bad relationship with and frnd, 1 gf who broke up with me 3 years ago, rehected by over 10 girls in the course of about 7 years. Iq low, basically no hobbies, not even good at video games, frnds almost none. Is it over for me chat ?

Also i have bowed legs and body dysmorphia so no cool pics on social medias, dont even watch movies or series, just fkin existing and trying to get shi done but seems like nothing has been going right

14 thoughts on “I am really struggling in life and I do not know what to do ?”
  1. Try not whining. If you are going to achieve nothing, at least have the decency to not whine about your personal failures 

    1. How does that improve my situation tho, its not like im gonna pass my courses if i dont whine, or grow taller or smthin, have been a loser and will be, just posting cause it wont make a difference, listened to too much david goggins, tried a bunch of shi, nothing that brings actual change in my life, im alone, with no one to understand me, no family, no frnds, no gf

  2. Sybau and hit the gym.

    Then sit yba down and write down what you want in life.

    Then keep yba sat down and break those things down into small actionable steps.

    Wake yba up the next day and start executing on yba plan.

    1. I hit gym 4-5 days a week from past 5 yrs and ive filled diaries over diaries writing down plans goals timetables, either i fail from my plan after few days because exams or projects come up or i just don’t have time after college and gym or the things that are my goals usually require some creativity and talent as i have tried content making off and on since grade 7th and nothing has been viral or even moderately successful, and my skillset has improved but again, 13 yr olds have more content or editing skills than me cause im a very slow learner . Thanks for replying tho, appreciate that and i would keep trying …lets see what happens

      1. Don’t compare yourself to others brother.

        I was smarter then a lot of adults growing up and guess what my 8 year old nephew is smarter then me and now I’m retarded but it doesn’t matter everyone has their own bullshit to conquer.

        Only way to lose is to give up.

  3. There’s a lot to dig into here and very little info. You might try talking to a counselor, who can see if there are any issues that you can work on. From that you might get some realistic goals to achieve.

    I do have one suggestion I might make. Now, again, this is based on very little info so take it with the proverbial grain of salt. From the way you speak about things and the general tone of the post, you seem to be doing a lot of things to get validation from other people. Instead, look more to yourself for your sense of self-worth. One excellent quality you seem to have is the desire to improve yourself. That is huge. I know many people who for various reasons cannot change. It’s sad because they will probably be stuck with their problems forever. Again, I would look for a counselor to help guide you through changing.

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