Hello, I am pgdm student and along with that I have a job, so I am a little caught up. But the thing is that in the starting of the relationship I used to give her a lot of time cause at that time I didn’t have anything to do, no studies( as I was freshly graduated) and no job. But now I have things to do and for that I am not being able to give her time. And she is feeling lonely and unheard and at the time, I am trying to have a conversation with her she is just ignoring me, saying that you are not understanding my feelings and I am feeling lonely.
I really want to help her as I love her a lot. Please suggest some ways that I can help her to overcome this situation. I really want to help her and be with her for rest of my life, cause I really love her a lot.
To me, it seems like she is not giving you the time. When you try to reassure her, she ignores you? How are you supposed to do that if she won’t listen and discuss the relationship like adults?
You can give her the time you have, support her as you know how, but you can’t make her feel a certain way. It is on her to choose to continue working on the relationship and move past her feelings of misunderstandment. What is she claiming you’re “misunderstanding” her on? What are her expectations for time together? Are they unreadonable, or could you meet them?
She is clingy, needy, selfish, immature. Just leave her because she thinks the world revolves around her. Also she doesn’t give a crap about you and your life, she doesn’t even acts like she loves you. Everything is about her. However I bet if you wouldn’t buy her flowers, wouldn’t pay on dates, wouldn’t have money she would complain you are not a man, but a lazy, stupid boy whom she can’t build a life with. Does she work btw? Doesn’t she has hobbies, friends? Her attitude is a giant red flag and you shouldn’t even think about to bend to her irrealistic wishes. She needs to grow up and not being copedent on you, thinking you are her servant who will fulfill her fantasy romance book. Just break up with her if you want to be happy and be with normal, mature and caring girlfriend in the future because she will never change for you.