Hey guys, I’m just going to start this out by saying I’m not really sure what all information to add to this but I will try to add everything relevant to the situation.
So I [F19] have been dating “jeremy” [M21] for a little over a year. (For a little context, I am currently in college and he is working with a diploma). When we first started dating, we were very engaged with one another. Hanging out nearly everyday, even after he got out of work, we would hangout until 2-3am, frequently text, nightly calls to chat about our days when I’m away at school, have frequent sexual encounters, flowers occasionally, and constant words of affection. This is the first relationship I’ve had since I was 14 as I tend to not have much trust in men. “Jeremy” was the first man who ever made me feel truly comfortable in my skin.
Recently, in the last two or so months, I’ve noticed that “Jeremy’s” interest in me has seemingly tapered off. Less texting, not initiating sexually and if he does he seems uninterested, less compliments and “I love you”’s, shorter calls with little interaction, and cutting hangouts short. He will also not open up to me about any deeps emotions he has. I try my absolute best to be there for him by giving him space when he wants it, offering a lot of my time, and constant reassurance, but he doesn’t seem receptive to any of this and will sometimes comment that I am not good at comforting people. I will sometimes ask him if he is still interested, assuring him that I would not be offended if he lost feelings, but he will say there is no doubt in his no doubt in his mind that he loves me. I am enamored by him and feel sort of hurt and let down by his recent behavior, which feels unfair to bring up if he is going through something right now.
I guess I’m just asking for advice to better support the both of us? Does any of this seem to point to the end of the relationship? I just want to get some outside insight as my close circle tends to be a little biased. I don’t know, tell me what you guys think 🙁