25F here. A guy from my past reached out to me on social media telling me he loves my style, loves seeing my posts/stories, and that he would love to see me when he comes home this month and that I’ll be the first to know when he’s back. (He moved to another city).
I have a huge crush on him. Last week I posted on my story an aesthetic-like picture of trinkets on my floor (A romance book, lace underwear, pearl necklace, lipstick and perfume, romantic tarot cards, my journal, a dried rose, etc.) and he liked it. He doesn’t like my stories but always views them.
We also agreed to get together this month and haven’t been talking on DMS. I’d rather save the energy for in person and maybe he’s doing the same thing?
I know not everything is about social media, before someone says that. But given he is in another state and we’re not in a relationship, it’s really the only way so far for me to gauge his interest based on his behavior. We’re both not big social media people.
Thoughts? Is he just being friendly or do you think he is romantically interested? I definitely am.
There is no way to tell. Meet him in person and see what happens
I moved a lot and didn’t make a point of staying in contact with very many people.
Keeping up with your social media and wanting to see you first thing when he gets home is more than friendship.
He sounds keenly interested in you. Don’t overthink it. Enjoy!
Yeah – this isn’t friendly interest. If it was a ratio guess, I’d say 98.95% interested romantically, compared to the 1.05% platonic. But I don’t know for certain, other than 99/100 is pretty strong.
If a guy reaches out, hypes your vibe, watches every story and makes plans to see you first thing when he’s back that’s not friendly that’s interest.
It sounds like he’s romantically interested.
No chance it’s just being friendly. He’s def into you. Go for it.
He’s romantically interested for sure. It’s a HUGE sign when someone’s thinking about you and they’re not even in the same area.
Even a day away from my wife is basically torture. I just like hanging around with her because everything is more fun. Business trips are super depressing because I think about her a lot.
I’m sure that’s what this guy is doing too.
Awww. This is the love I want.
Yeah it was funny actually.
I did a double take when they introduced her at the morning meeting; she was stunning and I was scared shitless. I had to keep fixing her printer (I’m in IT), and I noticed she dressed up a bit every time she called me. Eventually I just said “Do you want to meet up for coffee so we can talk about something that’s NOT about printers?” She replied “Finally! I thought you’d never ask.” We were engaged a year later.
This made me feel a lot better! He’s actually in the military in another state. He told me he’d love to see me when he comes home although he didn’t know when that would be. I said I was hoping he’d come back soon and then he said December for sure, that I’ll be the first to know and that he can’t to see me :”)
You posted a sexy image, he messaged you and three times mentioned “love”. And you honestly think he wants to be friends? Really?
You like him, amd he would LOVE to see you.
I think you know the answer to your own question or you simply are so excited, you don’t know what to ask.
You’re right lmao. Maybe part of me is just so shocked because I never expected that or him. We were in school together as kids and it came out of nowhere haha
He’s certainly not just friendly. He’s interested in *something*