First post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/p8qGRYquQB
Thanks for the advice in my original post. When I had taken my daughters out with me one day I did ask them if either of them had any issues with my nephew staying. They both said no. I relayed this to my wife who still insisted that this couldn’t last till May (which is when he goes back to school) and that it was affecting our daughters.
I pulled as many strings as I could and contacted people I know and sent my resume to them but the job market is really bad. Fortunately though he was able to land one, it wasn’t part of the program he’s studying per se, but he was able to get it approved and said that he fortunately has just about enough weeks to have it counted towards his school credentials. He started last week and I helped him move out. They required first and last months rent, so I helped him out and he’ll pay me back when he gets paid. I’ve told him theres no rush, to pay me back whenever he can.
My wife’s glad that he was able to secure a co-op too. To her credit, she hasn’t let her feelings show in her interactions with him, she was polite to him when he was leaving too. Thanks.