Warning: i dont know how to write english properly becuse it is not my first language
So my dad go me this 280000 lkr stationery excersice bike saying that i am too fat and too tall and have murfan syndrome when in reality i dont and the thing is too big for so i have to bend my body uncomfortably to use the thing and one time i injured my self near my leg using it. So my mom wants to send it to my grammas house and saying me to ask my dad about it and it feels so wrong to ask him that. And i really need to becuse the room it is in is my room and i want to get my study desk out of the living room and put it in my room but i cant becuse of this stupid thing and i really need to becuse the o/l exams are coming up and i need to study for it but the living room has too many distractions preventing me from actully studying.
So what do you guys this what should i do?.
Am i in the wrong?
Also sorry for the bad english english is not my first language
NTA your dad is mean and your mom needs to have a serious discussion with him about how he talks to you. Get rid of the bike.
YWNBTA
I Don’t know if the translation came through poorly, but if he called you fat, and tall (huh?), he needs better manners when speaking to people.
Also stationary bikes come in different lengths (elliptical as well) for height, and you need to make sure you have the correct one for safety.
NTA.
Move your desk into your room and put the exercise bike in the living room.
PS. Marfan Syndrome would make you tall and thin. Not sure if you’re saying the bike is too big for you or you are too big for the bike, but usually they are quite adjustable.
My mum does not like that idea becuse guests will ask why is there a bike in the middle of living room and i live in a small house
Of course. The living room is on the way to your grandmother’s house. Let them sort it out.
This strikes me as an “it’s better to ask forgiveness than permission” scenario. Put the bike in the living room. Your mom and dad are adults, if they don’t want it there they have the capacity to find a new home for it before any curious visitors are expected if it’s that important to them.
(Also, “the bike is just temporary while we figure out where to put it” is a totally normal and valid answer to any questions. But most guests will be too polite to ask them, so this thing about questions is total BS.)
Put it in his room.
NTA. And they clearly don’t understand Marfan’s. You should only being doing an exercise regime YOUR DOCTOR SAYS IS SAFE FOR YOUR HEART! And if the bike doesn’t fit, it’s not safe nor will it get used. So tell your dad if he cared he’d have gotten one that FIT YOU instead of being as A S S about it! You live on your own? Then put it outside with a free sign on it! Post it to a marketplace! Just get rid of it. If he gave it to you, it’s yours to do whatever you want with it. If grandma wants it? Hire someone to take it to her- don’t you dare try to move that on your own!
You ANTA, talk to your mom and tell her what you just told us. I am quite sure you will find a solution.