Before I start I have no ill will towards my mom. I’m in college, don’t really have a choice in the matter as it’s apart of my mother’s will so she’s making sure I get some education before I get her money, that’s the only condition. She insisted I live with others so I can get a life lesson but I said I why would I put myself in a position to get annoyed when an alternative is right there. She later admitted it was an excuse because her military benefits might not be able to offered rent if I lived alone. Here’s the rules, if I live alone because every roommate leaves there’s no fee. If I deliberately live alone there is one. I have 2 but one is planning on leaving. This is a single sex dorm
The roommate I’m left with is not only weird asl but he’s so dirty! I can’t even sit on the couches because he has his stuff and food on it. Can barely cook on the counter because he leaves dirty dishes everywhere. When I cook he hovers over me and question my cooking experience. When I share anything positive he ruins it. When I reported him and his hoarder level messes combined with his selfishness. he cried because he might get evicted and insisted I go to him before the higher up. The second time I reported him nothing happened but he go a final warning. he admitted to tuning us out. I can’t say all he did due to the text limit but I also hate the area. It’s extremely getto and homeless people everywhere. One yelled “Hey I SEE YOU I KNOW YOU CAN HEAR ME!”.
Our housing manager said she has no problem moving me but changed her mind a month later after making me wait because she “seen worse!” He’s attracting bugs and doesn’t clean unless told. After she resigned I plan on asking the new guy for a place to stay because I can’t take it anymore, but I’m waiting for the old manager to be completely out of the picture. If I can’t offer the theorized rent I will hesitate to get him evicted.
WIBTA?
NTA at all. You’re not responsible for subsidizing this dude’s inability to live like a basic human or your school’s lack of decent housing options.
Ask to be moved the second the new manager is in, and if they decide to evict him based on his own behavior, that’s on him, not you.
Oh don’t worry I feel no guilt at all. I kid you not I deep cleaned the apartment so I can prove it’s not me and when the house gets messy I can get an out. The original plan was to wait 4 weeks. Then take an after photo. I just need concrete proof again like last time as it was only his first and second warning.
But the housing manager surprised inspected the apartment a day after I didn’t which gave him the all clear. I made sure she knew right away it was me
**YWNBTA**
he sucks