A week ago, I invited my friends to go to the ice rink. Initially, I was communicating with three people in real life. Me, my friends (Ali) and (Alex) changed our names. This week we said on the weekend went on rink. While chatting with friends in a shared chat, I found out that Jessie likes to skate. I wrote to Ali that it would be nice to invite her, but at the same time I would like to get to know her, and she agreed. (Let me clarify that all the friends from this company know Ali personally. And she introduced Alex. I thought we were going to be a foursome. But yesterday they posted a photo showing two tickets for an hour-long session. I was upset because we were already getting together as a group.:(I explained to them why they went earlier and alone, without us?. It turns out that Jessie didn’t even know that she was supposed to be coming with us. And they said they were just teaching Ali how to skate, and she would be ashamed in front of us.(Who are we? Because of me???I’ve known Ali for 3 years, even more, and is she ashamed? I don’t believe it) they also said they want to stay in the house.. There would be nothing wrong with that if Ali was without a boyfriend and didn’t beat her chest that she only loved him. I don’t really care who you mess with, be damn honest with me if you call me your best friend. These two are saying that I’m making a big deal out of a molehill, and we should go out on the weekend. But I’ve already lost all desire to spend time with them. They apologized, but it was as if they had paid off. They offered to come in and give me a present. I refused, I don’t need such gifts.. It’s like they want me to keep quiet.
Am I an asshole because I’m overreacting to the situation?
They had invited me like that before, and I was like 3 lilies
I want to clarify that I blocked them for a while and I’m thinking of stopping communicating with them if they want to communicate in two, then why not
YTA – There is no reason they can’t go more than once. You are making a big deal about nothing. Everything else you brought up not only doesn’t matter in this situation, but also is none of your business.
Jfc how old are you??
15. We are all teenagers
Yup that tracks
Yes, YTA.
YTA, but you’re also 15 so everything seems like the end of the world right now. Blocking anyone is probably a big step for something like this, if you can I’d let this slide and go with the flow. The best thing about being this age is having fun with your friends, whether it’s your first time doing something or your 40th. Go out, have fun, and try not to stress so much.
Yes, YTA and massively overreacting. Don’t get into the habit of being melodramatic when things don’t go your way. I know you’re just a teenager, but blocking them is ridiculous. Just let it go and move on, go spend time with your friends like you planned.
NAH
You’re kids, and you’re reacting like kids.
I think Ali and Alex felt shy when you suggested bringing Jessie. Bet she’s a great skater, right? They thought they’d get some practice in so they don’t embarrass themselves, or embarrass you, in front of Jessie.
They didn’t think about how that might make you feel. You felt excluded, which is understandable.
They’ve offered you an olive branch 🕊️ a gift to make peace. Accept it and move on.
As you grow older you’ll find out how important good friends are. They are treasures – protect and nurture them – don’t throw them away 💜
YTA.
I seriously don’t understand why you’re even upset. Because they did something without you?
Come on bro
YTA. yes. Their going skating another time in addition to with you is none of your business. You’re being extremely silly.