So for context, I just started living with my boyfriend who is 30, while I, his girlfriend is 20. I am somewhat active on social media because I really love sharing my life and interacting with others along with making new friends.
Recently, my boyfriend has been looking through my phone and thinks that I don’t know. I don’t mind because I don’t have anything to hide, but that was up until he started accusing me of cheating.
I am a very loyal person and I would never cheat so it is very hurtful that he believes I am not loyal to him. He came into our room the other day, held up my phone and asked who was following me.
I was confused but I assume that a man had followed me and he thought that it was someone I knew. He told me that if I really loved him I would delete my social media and that he doesn’t trust me and kept accusing me of going behind his back to talk to other people.
I feel sort of guilty for not deleting it. He hasn’t talked to me in a day. He just keeps ignoring me. I think he is mad I don’t want to delete it. I feel guilty because I feel like I am not respecting his boundaries or something. Please let me know if I am in the wrong.
A 20 year old should not be dating a 30 year old because the 30 year old wants to control the 20 year old. Here is an example. You aren’t wrong and he’s already playing stupid games with you.
I would seriously reconsider this situation. Perhaps move out on your own again, even if you choose to stay in this relationship. Don’t give him so much power over you.