didn’t want to show my face on FT with my boyfriend today because I’ve just been so tired, and now my brain is spiraling thinking he probably thinks I’m insecure. 😭
He only complimented my hair afterward and not my face, so of course I’m overthinking it like crazy.
I know I’m probably just exhausted, but ugh… the overthinking is winning tonight.
Is it weird that I didn’t want to show my face on FT with my boyfriend because I was exhausted, and now I’m scared he thinks I’m insecure? He only complimented my hair afterward and not my face… am I overthinking this?
if you’re overthinking this then you are insecure.
You’re overthinking this
Yes you are. He’s your boyfriend therefore he likes you and gives zero shits about things like this.
Enjoy your life and time with people who want to spend time with you instead of worrying about little things that will suck the life out of you.
(Dad of 2 and of an age where I’ve learned to not care what others think of me)
This does indeed sound insecure, honestly your bf is not some random guy and you should feel comfortable to show your face even in the worst possible shape and if he is really into you, he is still gonna consider you just as beautiful as always.
You cannot expect someone to always give you the exact compliment you feel you need right now. Not too mention that constant stream of compliments generally makes them sound cheap and fake.
He didn’t even compliment your shoes?!
You do seem insecure, so what’s wrong with him thinking you are insecure?
From the post you clearly ARE insecure. Absolutely no doubt about it.
The question now is how your BF feels about it.
You’re overreacting, insecure, and probably young. Just because he didn’t compliment your face doesn’t meant he doesn’t think you’re beautiful.
Yes weird. It would bother me if my gf wasn’t ok with me seeing her when she doesn’t look her best. While I know it’s insecurity it would feel like a lack of trust
He probably likes you and thinks you are hot since he’s your boyfriend and all
Is he aware he is supposed compliments your head in sections or did you not communicate that clearly to him?
Yes you are overthinking it.
Imagine if y’all had to just talk in real life like us dinosaurs did…
How can you even live together with someone, when you can’t even show him your tired face?
Yes you are overthinking and overclocking. Start talking to him.
You didn’t want to show your face because you were tired and afraid of how you looked. You are upset that he only complimented your hair.
Now you are overthinking and worrying about if your boyfriend thinks you’re insecure.
Tell me, what exactly is wrong with your boyfriend seeing that you are in fact insecure? What is so wrong with your boyfriend seeing this part of who you are right now?
Generally it’s considered impolite to complement a feature that the person has no control over, such as a face.