I ork out four days a week and try to stay consistent. I have some muscle here and there, but I still look very slim in clothes. On top of that, I’m on the shorter side and I have a small dick.
I’m in a long-distance relationship with a girl I met online, she loves me a lot and finds me cute, but she hasn’t seen me in person yet. I don’t know if she’s expecting someone taller or more built, and obviously penis size worries me too.
I’m a bit anxious about it, so should I tell her? The only thing I’m confident about is my face, and she tells me she really likes that.
Remember, no girl knows how big your dick is until she has already decided that she’s attracted to you enough to have sex with you. And then if you can give her a good experience regardless, that’s what she’ll leave the encounter remembering
Put on some muscle, to compensate for your small dick.
Make a lot of $$$ and work out.
It’ll balance itself out
There’s an old line from a movie or something that says each zero in your bank balance adds a certain amount of inches to your dick. Heard it said a few different ways over the years.
It’s just men with small dicks that feel inadequate that say that.
Work on his personality as well.
Just be social and have humor and all will fall into place. Women love funny guys /s
First off, don’t waste your time on these pen-pal situations; you’ll invest your heart and soul only to be disappointed and heartbroken. Tell her how tall you are, let her see the real you and then let her decide if she wants to meet.
Being successful (=wealthy) and charming is more important than anything else when it comes to dating as a guy. If you don’t have that, then you need to be over six feet tall and handsome.
Seriously consider going overseas; many Asian countries don’t have the height fixation and they are used to much smaller dicks than men of European or African origin have.
Good luck!
In a strange way, if you own things about yourself that aren’t generally seen as attractive, that itself can be hot to people.
I don’t think anybody really gives a shit about dick size, it’s just an easy target.
Short isn’t necessarily a reflection of attractive facial features or something like that.
And muscles aren’t always attractive either, “petite” can be fine or even attractive to some.
Point being, nothing you listed is *necessarily* unattractive but a lack of confidence in yourself is.
BTW can you post a vid of how you ork out? Do you turn green or is there any other good takeaway for us normal folks?
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That was all I could focus on too😂😂😂
If she hasn’t inquired, you’re the only person worrying about things you have no influence over.
The LDR will continue to feed doubt until both of you meet; until then, you’re pen pals and it should not escalate beyond that.
If you’re working out 4 times a week, you might try the same dedication to your mental health.
That’s growth.
You’re in a relationship with someone you’ve never met?