I moved out of my parents house in August and have been living on my own since(Im 24). Ever since I moved into this apartment, I’ve been jerking off and more tempted to watch porn than I ever was when i livd at my parents house. Is this normal?
I also dont have a sex life and am single. Idk why but it feels like now I get more tempted to watch porn than I was before and it’s so easy to fall into since it’s just me that lives here.
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IMO the only reason to have a place to yourself is to have a place to jerk off.
Porn can be a replacement for connection, so perhaps you moving out of your parents house means are more isolated and seeking connections through porn?
Just stream that porn to any device. Randomly pick one and let it fly.
Also, try to find another willing, living person to do it with.
You’ll get over it, you’re in the honeymoon phase away from home. Get out there and start banging left & right in the comfort of your new crib. Just make sure to keep a clean living space, nobody want’s to walk into a clustered living space with a dirty kitchen and bathroom. Keep it clean and show off that crib and welcome back repeats for more banging.
Lay off the porn . . . .
Or, ya know, find someone you really like and learn what real sex is.
Testosterone goes down when you’re in a family living situation. It goes up when you’re on your own.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/psychology/comments/1pbnctu/family\_life\_lowers\_mens\_testosterone\_without/](https://www.reddit.com/r/psychology/comments/1pbnctu/family_life_lowers_mens_testosterone_without/)
You’re adjusting to having some privacy. If it keeps you from regular socializing, you’re doing it too much. But for now, it’s pretty normal to take advantage of that new privacy.
Perfectly normal…
Yes dude of course it’s normal. You have your own space and privacy now… what kind of question is that? lol. There’s nothing wrong with it. Don’t build an unhealthy relationship with porn. But also don’t forget to work on yourself and build yourself and making meeting people and building real connections a priority. Even I myself as a single guy in my own place sometimes get into periods of seclusion, but it’s important to not be in that for too long and get out. Meet people. Try to meet girls and have real connections. Etc. Don’t feel bad about wanking it in your own private space. Ideally you find yourself a girl to share that private space together.
Find yourself a really horny girl friend and cut back on the porn. The real thing is so much better.
All these people commenting lay off the porn are absolutely destroying their meat to porn daily.
Keep jerking off. Nothing wrong with it. At your age if I wasn’t dating someone I was at it multiple times a day.
A web search says for Addiction: 1. Physiological or psychological dependence, 2. The condition of being habitually occupied with or involved in something. I’m guessing that neither of those are true for you. Watching porn and jerking off once or twice a day is not an addiction. But feminists and many women will say that watching porn once a week means you have a porn addiction.