My girlfriend was on a call with me and saw I was pressing a gate code to open my parent’s garage, I was visiting for Christmas, and she now is too obsessed with the gate code and is too pushy not respecting that boundary.
She won’t even talk to me anymore because I won’t tell her the code. That sounds too pushy.
NTA. It’s not your house you have no right to give the gate code out at all. If she can’t understand that it may be time for a serious conversation and if it’s too big an issue I would recommend you move on.
She is not entitled to your parent’s gate code.
1. If she is obsessed with the idea of having it, that is a problem.
2. It is your parent’s code to give out, not yours.
she’s trying to slime you fam.
Exactly what i thought. She wanna backdoor bro
Is that some new fangled lingo, or like do they show up with the Nickelodeon crew with the green stuff?
Um, NTA but your girlfriend (or firlgriend) is sus.
Not your house so not your code to share. She’s blowing this out of proportion.
Me being petty would probably give her a fake code. Just be ready to head her off before she tries to use the code next time you visit.
Sounds like a setup for a robbery. Get the hell away from that succubus.
NTA u might have to break things off if she won’t let up
NTA
She definitely seems to be pushing a lot of dounbaries, this firlgriend of yours.
She’s pulling a power trip: wanting the code just to see if you still give it to her. Not a good dynamic in s relationship. Feel lucky to be rid of her. Those kind of games are juvenile and tedious, and if you capitulate or get past this one, she’ll find a new versio. That tests you just a bit more.
Hell no.
NTA
There’s no reason she needs your parents’ gate code. She’s not working there or living there – no need for her to have it.
This girl is not for you. Pretty psycho behavior.