I (f24) am the older sibling between myself and my younger sibling. They do absolutely nothing around the house they do not clean, do laundry, do dishes, or help around in any way it comes down to myself and my grandma doing everything. They are also lazy they does work part time and does have pots but when they are not working shes either sleeping or playing on her PC. Yet when you asked them to do something they sigh groan and whine about it. Now my issue is when they are literally not doing anything but playing on their PC and text me who is across the house writing a book most of the time to come to them and see for example if we have something in the kitchen. Then have me bring it to them when they are perfectly capable of getting up and doing it themselves! They do this often and if i refuse they get angry huffy and grumpy because i didn’t drop everything to serve their demand. AITA?
NTA for not doing chores that they are physically capable of doing as well
Don’t refuse, just don’t even reply. Fixed.
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I am physically disabled and financially unable to so i can’t i want to trust me but at the moment i can’t
The cocoa butter comment is unnecessarily racist. They did not say what their ethnicity was.
YTA if you even ENTERTAIN being summoned by your lazy siblings BY TEXT who order you to do something.
Just ignore them or even block them. Stop cleaning their stuff. Make them prepare their own meals and do their own laundry.
If they are working grandma needs to charge them rent.
I don’t want to say NTA because you’ve got to be harsher. Not just refusing their demands, make them do something. Leave their dirty dishes in their room, same for any mess they make. You have to make them want to do something. Make them face consequences, most people don’t want to live in filth. Don’t help them until they help you/themself.
Y T A.
you should have more simply for quadruple amputees. It’s much harder for them to get things than for you.
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YTA to yourself just stop doing it ffs who cares if they are grumpy
I stopped i just wanted to know if i was the asshole because to them i am i just wanted outside perspective
YTA
The house should have established rules. Review those rules before you make them up as you go along. You’re allowed to feel angry at the imbalance of the work, but that is all. If there is a rule that the younger one can do less, you need to take this up with the one who set the rule, not the younger one.