I honestly couldn’t contain it anymore as this has made me mad for a long time and had to just let it out. I feel really bad since she did cry, but gross food was building up in the sink and she rarely did the dishes. I also felt like I was constantly picking up after her.
YTA for yelling NTA for being frustrated. You can’t explode on people, you have to learn to communicate effectively.
Also, clean vs not clean is a personality type. She can change her behavior but she’ll never CHANGE. You probably aren’t compatible as roommates if it’s been SO frustrating that you yelled. I would find a new living situation if I were you.
Well, did you *chat* before you scrumpt?
Ya she just is really messy and never picks up after herself
College roommates are tough. Meeting each other’s expectations is hard!
Buy her some paper plates, I guess idk. Best of luck!
Thank you
In that case, NTA.
NTA. I see why you eventually lost it.
YTA
Screaming is AH behavior. So is being a slob but you asked about your behavior.
YTA for yelling at her but otherwise NTA. Having a serious, sit-down conversation with her would’ve been the right thing to do but I get why you’re upset
ESH
ESH. Her for being a slob, you for screaming at her. The correct course of action would be to ultimatum her ass to either clean up after herself or you request a new roommate if this is a college provided housing situation or moving out with a diff roommate if not