Today me (21M) and my girlfriend (21F) cooked a Korean corn dog in the air fryer and shared it. After we were done what was left was a blunt, wooden skewer covered in a thin layer of mozzarella cheese, saliva, and ketchup (she wants me to specify that it was not dripping in saliva but mildly saturated). My girlfriend then remarked she was still hungry and got up to go get a Tupperware full of precooked chicken I made for us to use in whatever meals throughout the week. As I walked past to throw the skewer away she said "wait don’t throw that away give it to me" and proceeded to impale (not very effectively) several pieces of shredded chicken (straight through one of them into the bottom of the Tupperware, where I maintain that some chicken still remained, she disagrees). She then proceeded to eat this chicken (again not very effectively) using the skewer. When I was grossed out by this she was offended, and shocked that my takeaway was that this was unsanitary and that I did not appreciate her ingenuity.
Girlfriend here… we had just had a slight argument about him licking my back and me not liking it. He maintains that that was fine lol. I think this is all ok because I made an effort not to stab each and every chicken in the container, and even if there was slight touching, why does it matter when we swap spit on the reg.
understandable to be grossed out if it was anyone but your girlfriend with your shared food.
so two questions
1. who cooked the food? did she? then she’s in the right.
2. has she ever gave you head? yes? then she’s in the right.
YTA. Sorry.
I don’t get why it’s gross with a GF. I doubt she was sucking on the corn dog stick. Even if she had, I’m assuming her tongue has been in your mouth which is similar. Spearing chicken with that skewer isn’t bothersome to me. YTA
I’m confused. You say you shared the corndog. Meaning you both took bites of it. You also put your tongue in her mouth, right?? I’m just not seeing where the big deal is here. Stop making a big deal out of nothing. It’s not as if she’s using your toothbrush.
YTA