Basically, I went through his phone. What I found was.. he was sexting a girl he had been with a month or so prior to us becoming official, but sexting her when we were together. Calling his ex every so often in the beginning and telling her he loves her a few weeks before asking me out and accidentally telling me he loves me. And all and all, this was the first month of us dating.
Now we’re a year in, and we’re thinking of starting a business. And on his business account he frequents his exes pages a lot. Like maybe once or twice a week. I don’t know what to do with this information. I feel betrayed. I don’t know is he ready for a relationship? I feel like he settled with me.
I feel like you already know the answer to your question. Break it off. He is living in this dream of being with his ex while actively disrespecting and insulting your relationship with him. It’s better to not waste any more time and find someone who wants you and only you. I understand it’s hard but I think this situation is unfortunately unfixable.
I just don’t know how to open the conversation up again.
You break up. Tell him you discovered he was cheating and you are over.