So long story short. I am in a poly relationship, my girlfriend and her husband are really cool, we’ve come a long way, we loce each other all equally, but my friends dont seem to understand that. Now for more context, my friends have been by my side for years, decades almost and we’ve had our ups and downs where they find an SO and they dissappear to hang out with them, I’ve been there just kinda being the last man while they go off and do their thing then come back and everything’s good. So I’ve been or course spending time with my girlfriend and meeting her friends, they accepted me, they are amazing, but when I introduce her to my friends they immediately interrogate her, one friend whose more troh led right now is practically 24/7 drunk he takes my girl to another discord call and makes a server and basically interrogated her about why she likes me why we make a match but then he goes sexual, if I’ve sent dick pics, what i call her, and what not, course that makes her uncomfortable i shut it down, but after that I spend more time with her because we are bonding more, recently my two closest friends literally interrogate ME, saying how im probably changing and how they might lose me, how this relationship can’t be it, of course I listened and didnt retaliate but what got me was how they brought it up, thought the times I’ve been with my girls we still message, yea im not in that discord with them 24/7 but still get in contact, but then they all ask why im gone why I leave when she asks for my attention and affection, why im not there to spend time with them, and its because Im being serious about this relationship, me and her husband are cool, we get along and joke around. But I guess my thing is, am I the bad guy? For wanting to move on to a future with someone I love? Regardless of it being a poly?