AITA if I call someone I used to be fwb with when I’ve been spiked and am not consciously there and have no recollection and then the current guy that i’m speaking to finds out and knows that I was spiked and throws a fit and ends things despite the fact that we haven’t even had the exclusive chat and all I said on the phone was how are you? Is this reasonable for him to end things over and think I’m terrible for or no?
So I used to be close friends and fwb with this guy who i’m no longer in contact with (m 20) however I recently started seeing someone else semi-seriously (m20).
I went out to some bars in the city with 2 girl friends and ended up being spiked, this was the scariest thing ever and I still don’t remember much.
At one of the venues I knew I had been to with the first guy and I was out of my mind and for some reason called him but I don’t remember doing this. My friend who was with me at the time said she has never seen me in this state before which is strange because I have been out with her more times than I can count and at this point I had only had 3 drinks.
Apparently when I called the guy I asked how he was and it was like a 2 minute conversation not even but he told one of his friends who is also friends with the one I am currently talking to.
Keep in mind at this point we were not dating and not even exclusive however he is very upset and wants to call everything off as his friends (who i’ve never met) are saying horrible things about me which is further driving him away apparently.
Am I the asshole