im reposting this since my original post mainly had comments regarding how incoherent my post was…
i think i’m naturally a very judgmental person and get annoyed easily. when i tried speaking multiple times during our physical education lessons, they just talked over me. so i became pissed off..? like i usually become very quiet when im angry and i think it somehow shows on my face? but not anything crude like rolling my eyes but just visible annoyance.
im worried that i caused this /im the asshole since i have been holding a grudge whenever they talked over me, resulting in me subconsciously being rude/ distant/ visibly irritated.
these are things that have been happening recently:
\- when we went to the toilet, my two friends were planning to leave with me still peeing.
\- after the lecture, they just walked off and didnt wait for me. i confronted them and all they had to say was “sorry i was too tired to be inclusive”
\- they both synced to go to this school event at the same time, which im guessing means they texted each other. so through my inference, they texted each other and just didnt ask me.
NTA and these people don’t sound very nice. You may want to forget about them and make some new friends.
they are not your friends. move on.
As someone who has been in this position, trio friends suck. Two of them are always better friends and the third one gets left behind. I’d rather have no friends and then friends like that. Move on from them, you deserve better. One of the best decisions I ever made was leaving those friends
NTA
Hun, these girls are not your friends. Find new ones. It is hard. It is sad. But it is the best thing for you in the long run.