Hi guys, so I (21F) and my boyfriend (19M) were watching Harry Potter.
Basically, he didn’t watch them (read most of the books) but got spoiled about many things
And I have this thing where I love watching movies with people that don’t know what will happen but I do.
And during the several first movies, when he would ask me stuff about what will happen, I wouldn’t tell him the truth so that it kept the surprise.
At some point he asked me not to do that so I stopped and I don’t lie to him about the movies anymore.
And we were watching the 6th movie where one of the main characters die, and he was like “I know something about his death” and I asked what it was but he wouldn’t tell me .Then he told me he knows that Harry dies at some point and comes back to life, and I was like “oh and do you know why is that” because I know the reason but I’d hoped it would be a surprise to him.
And again, he wouldn’t tell me, even if I told him I couldn’t get really spoiled about HP. He bragged that I could tell him if I wanted but I really don’t wanna spoil him.
And I have this thing where I get frustrated very easily and I don’t really know how to deal with that.
So I told him, “please tell me because I’m getting really frustrated and I don’t want that for both of us” and he was laughing about it mainly.
But it was not so funny to me, and I know it’s my fault for being upset easily but I told him that it was getting on my nerves and seeing him laughing about me not being able to deal with my own feelings was not so great.
So again, I know it’s my fault that I don’t know how to deal with my emotions but rn I feel bad and we’re not really talking… please tell me, AITA?
ESH. Pretty immature all around
ESH. i hope you’re using protection with this guy because you are both evidently still children yourselves.
Y’all are way too old to be fighting about Harry Potter. Grow up
ESH…. Don’t spoil books, don’t spoil movies…. Don’t ask questions. Watch or read the movie or book and enjoy the experience. Information will be revealed as you watch or read.
ESH.
You’re both still young and learning though so it’s forgivable.
How about getting the books on audible so you can both listen to them and expand both your knowledge on the series that way? My husband and I often listen to a few chapters of a book before bed together. Sometimes it’s one I’ve read, sometimes ones he’s read, sometimes neither of us has read it. It’s fun and we get in huge debates about theories of the books too. Even ones we already know the plot of, we have an agreement not to give spoilers so will just talk about possibilities
YTA, you sound insufferably immature.
Ages check out. ESH
YTA
ESH you are both too old for this.
You guys remind me of my 12 year old niece who told me when the book came out that Hagrid died. Of course, it was Dumbledore. My little boy started crying when he got to the part when Dumbledore died. I thought my little boy with his honest tears was more mature than his older cousin.
You two have some growing up to do.
ESH, just watch the damn movies
Gee I didn’t know 10 year olds (in maturity) dated.🤣 You like being the “know it all” when clearly you know so little.
Are you guys 10 years old? Sheesh. What an annoying conversation.
YTA – why do you HAVE to know something? Does it make you feel superior? What a weird thing to want.