So here it goes, I’m 26 (F) and my partner is 31(M). We were on a vacation with my friends, and my partner tagged along with us. We booked an overnight stay at a hotel, everything was going smoothly until the group decided to take a walk and eat on a nearby restaurant. So we entered the elevator and as we were going down, I farted really bad and I blamed my partner for not taking a toilet before heading out.
Supposedly it’s ok for me to fart in front of my friends since (well, they’re my friends) but it was so viciously bad that I don’t wanna get embarrassed.
So at first my partner ride along with it, apologizing to the group in which they just laughed it off.
However, after we ate some food, we went back to our room (privately), he stormed off. He would rage at me for being so disrespectful. I totally agree with him at that point and was constantly apologizing to him the entire time during his rage session. But the thing that he said that really pricked me off is that, he got embarrassed specifically on my friend. He would highlight the fact that she complimented his shirt and now he got this reputation of having no manners or something.
AITA for feeling this way?
(apologies for my bad english)
EDIT: There were also 2 other people riding the elevator besides our group. I don’t know what came over me because I was so flustered that the first thing I did was shift the blame to my bf, which I get is an AH move. I just didn’t understand the amount of rage he showed me. I get that he got embarrassed, that’s why he got angry, but I didn’t think it justifies the things he said. I hope this will be something we could laugh about in the future.