Okay, so I got these concert tickets for me and my partner I was dating back then. Things were great, so I gifted them the concert while traveling together.
Now, we’re not together anymore. They have blocked me on everything. No texts, no social media. The concert is soon, and he’s got the tickets.
I still wanna go, since now I am getting all these TikTok concert post on my feed.
I looked online on the ticket website and saw I can cancel the physical tickets and get new ones sent to my email. making the physical tickets invalid.
I feel bad. I still care about him and when I gave him the tickets, he was over the moon about it. I know we are not together and he block me, but I still feel like bad that i am considering doing this. But i also know I’m the one who can’t get in, and he only has them because I gifted it to him, also he could take anyone with him
So, am I the AITA if I cancel the tickets i gifted him and get the new digital ones sent to my email? Or am I overthinking this?
EDIT: clarification, got cheated on, but also they are concert tickets
Why did you break up and why did he block you? Honestly. If you cheated, take the loss and leave him the tickets. If he cheated, screw him and go ahead and cancel the physical tickets.
Yeah I was cheated on. found out during a travel together. After talking and discussing it. we parted ways and he block me on everything. The things is, I still believe he is a good guy. Maybe i am being nice about it. but also they are concert tickets.
If he cheated, screw him. I’m not one for taking back gifts, but I hate cheaters so gloves off at that point.
YTA. It’s stealing. You gifted them to him.
What’s the difference between that and recovering a physical gift that you might have exchanged? Very scummy.
YTA. You got them as a gift for him so they are his. You don’t take gifts back because you break up.
Nta hell yeah do that. What the hell
YTA. So you gave him a gift and now that you’re not together you feel you should take that gift back? That’s pretty messed up
eh this is dependent upon why you broke up/why they blocked you. when i split up with my ex and blocked her, it was because she cheated. so if you’re a cheater, YTA. if they cheated, NTA.
Cancel one ticket andget it emailed so you can go
Buy yourself another ticket and stop trying to find reasons to steal the tickets from your ex.
Kinda YTA because you gave him a gift. You don’t get to take it back now because you broke up. If possible cancel the ticket that was meant for you but really you should just let it go.
Definitely an asshole move, but so is cheating, fuck him do it
Run that shit.
Seeing in the comments that they cheated on you, NTA. Take the tickets and go with someone you’d enjoy the show with