(18f)this my last year in shcool and i failed the last year and had to repeat it now, i had a driver that take me to school and there’s another girl(16f) with me, and it happened that we share another friend who graduated this year and this girl in the car with me started getting really close to me like she came and touch me and hug me in the car and sometimes flirt and i just ignore her and say nothing and she talks A LOT and i literally don’t reply because i am fucking tired of everything and everyone, i don’t mean to he rude but i am just tired and sometimes i tell her that and she continues doing what she is doing, also today she wanted to sit near the window and i said no and she suddenly bites my arm hard but u didn’t show a reaction but it really hurted me and my arm became blue that she ever was surprised how I didn’t make a reaction to this but i just ignore her but i kinda feel guilty after i ignored her and then i left school early and bought her some snacks to make things up but i still feel guilty for my reactions to her
INFO: She bit you and you bought her some snacks? She bit you? She BIT YOU? Did you tell anyone?
Yes but I didn’t take that seriously since we are supposed to be friends and don’t want to act childish
She bit you hard enough to bruise and you don’t even like her. If you’re in school, go tell a trusted adult. Language teacher, vice principal, counselor, whoever.
She bit you. You’re *not* friends.
Hope she didn’t break the skin, that could get infected fast.
Also biting is not a good sign. She probably has a bad situation at home. Talk to a counselor or teacher and try to get her some help.
NTA.
She BIT your arm hard enough to bruise you and you bought her snacks? Maybe there is something I’m missing here, cultural, or…?
I would firmly tell her to leave you alone, stop touching you, that it’s inappropriate and that you just want some peace and quiet. If that makes her feel bad, maybe she’ll rethink the way she behaves.
I mean, she probably won’t, because you’re both teenagers. But you do not need to feel guilty for giving the cold shoulder to someone who BIT YOUR ARM.
nta your friend should tutor you instead biting your arm, be well
That’s one of the longest sentences I’ve seen recently. Try to read this on one breath.
Hard no.
Mission impossible
I love your confidence that this is going to be the last year of school for you. After reading this though, I have my doubts.
There’s a certain point where they don’t let you come back to high school
NTA tell your parents, the principal, somebody you can trust. It’s not childish to ask for help. She physically assaulted you, and has been sexually harassing you. You need to tell someone. You also need to find some different transportation to school where you don’t have to deal with her. And don’t give her anymore gifts or pay her anymore attention, it’s only going to encourage her awful behavior. Stay away from her and tell someone what she’s been doing to you.