AITA for losing patience with someone who kept making dramatic claims?

I started university two years ago in a psych major. In the first semester, I met these 3 people and we became a strong bond of 4 people. We were together 90% of the time in university. One of the girl let’s name her emy was very extroverted and very friendly with everyone. She was also top of the class. We were all cool with her except the fact she was very close with her family and would share each and everything we talked about with her family and tell us about their comments. About the end of the semester, we start having some study group related arguments as she would act very dominantly and would not listen to our opinions. After a few heated arguments, we all talked to her that we should change our study group for next semester. She did take it a little personally. I personally did not want that to happen, as we were all close. As second semester started, hell went loose. This girl, let’s call her lulu because she is delulu started saying insane stuff. She would say stuff about emy and her family was hell bent on making her the daughter-in-law. How emy would constantly ship her with her brother and that she hated it but she would not stop and take a guess. The signs according to lulu, about how emy once said how lulu has a very compatible personality with her brother and she used the word "other half" but emy said that about all three of us!! I was confused and I thought maybe I was not paying enough attention, and that she probably felt something we could not see. Emy distanced herself from us and because of constant claims from lulu we also thought maybe emy was doing that. Point to be noted emy and lulu were more closer because of their similar interests. Now mid of second semester after whole emy thing died down lulu had another claim, THIS ONE GUY IN HER CLASS LIKES HER!! AND she does not like it either and that it’s uncomfortable. We were trying to understand the situation and try to observe the guy but maybe we are blind and don’t see nothing. She kept going on about how women have this 7th sense and she feels it and there are signs. He stares at her and smirks, tries to walk past too close to her. We were all waiting for the time the guy finally approaches her but oh well. Even she says that during summer breaks the guy’s friends texted her and asked her about her hobbies and favourite shows and then after summer break how the guy started styling like the guy in the show she liked. To the point of wearing the exact same shirt as the confession scene in the show. The whole thing went from "he likes me" to "he is harassing me". To say the least we were extremely concerned. The guy was doing nothing but her intense emotional reactions would make it look like he did something outrageous. She would not confront him instead she would keep cursing him and we kept believing her, stupid yeah. She would say how teachers know about this because for some reason he has talked to a teacher instead of approaching her. cont….

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