Long story short, my brother in law was watching our dogs while we were away.
My neighbors saw a car they didnt recognize and called me to make sure we knew who it was (we did not)
We have cameras, which my bil knew about and as it turned out he had a women over without asking us (i would have been fine with it if i had met her first) and told her that the house, garage, cars and dogs were his.
When the dogs wouldnt listen to him he would grab them and kinda (they’re big dogs) throw/shove them into the house.
My husband agrees with me but my father in law thinks I’m being dramatic because I’m still mad over something "simple".
So am I the dramatic ahole?
Bringing a stranger into your house is enough to justify your decision, everything else is icing, NTA